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An Ever Growing List of Sexualities & their Definitions

List of Sexualities and Definitions


The language around sexuality and gender is constantly changing, with new definitions evolving, and existing words being reclaimed by new generations. 

We've compiled this list of sexualities and their definitions to act as an ever growing resource for the LGBTQ+ community and our allies, to give you the language to express your own sexuality, as well as the language to accurately represent those around you.

For the Gender Identities companion piece to this article, click here.

  Abrosexual Definition | Abrosexual Pride Flag


Someone whose sexuality is fluid or changeable.



Someone who is primarily attracted to masculinity, be this sexually, romantically, or aesthetically.


Aromantic Definition | Aromantic Pride Flag


Someone who does not experience romantic attraction. They may experience sexual and/or aesthetic attraction, but not romantic attraction.


Asexual Definition | Asexual Pride Flag


Someone who does not experience sexual attraction. They may experience romantic and/or aesthetic attraction, but not sexual attraction.


Bisexual Definition | Bisexual Pride Flag


Someone who is attracted to more than one gender.


Demisexual Definition | Demisexual Pride Flag


Someone who only experiences sexual attraction to someone once they have created a romantic or platonic relationship with them.

Similarly, Demiromantic refers to someone who does not experience romantic attraction until they have formed a strong connection with a partner.


Gay Definition | Gay Pride Rainbow Flag

Gay / Homosexual

Someone who is attracted to the same gender as themselves. The rainbow flag is also used to represent the LGBTQIA+ community as a whole.



Someone who is primarily romantically, sexually, or aesthetically attracted to femininity.


Lesbian Flag | Sexuality Definitions


Most often refers to women who are solely attracted to other women however some non binary people can also identify as lesbian.

Pansexual Definition | Pansexual Pride Flag


Someone who is attracted to all genders, the pre-fix 'pan' meaning 'all' in Latin. Many Pansexual people also describe themselves as being attracted to others based on their personality, not gender.

Polyamorous Definition | Polyamory Pride Flag


Someone who is, or desires to be in, a consensual relationship with multiple partners. Polyamory is the opposite of monogamy.

Polysexual Definition | Polysexual Pride Flag


Someone who is attracted to multiple genders, but not all genders.


Queer Definition | Queer Pride Flag


An umbrella term for someone whose sexuality and/or gender is not heterosexual, cisgender and/or allosexual.

Queer has been used as a term of abuse against the LGBTQ+ community, but is now often used by members of the LGBTQ+ who have reclaimed it.



As language evolves there are always new ways to describe different identities, if you feel we've missed something out that needs adding to this list of LGBTQ+ terms, be sure to let us know by emailing us on or messaging us via our Facebook page. 


Oliver, a trans, queer, and disabled person wearing a green hoodie sitting in their wheelchair.

This article was written by Oliver, a trans, queer, and disabled person who lives in Manchester with his partner and dog.


  • To clarify, Asexual and Aromantic can both be used as a separate identity label, AND as an umbrella term for whole Asexual spectrum (A-spec) and for the whole Aromantic spectrum (Aro-spec). Within the A-spec are Greysexual and Demisexual. Within the Aro-spec are Greyromantic and Demiromantic. The grey areas of each spectrum may feel SOME form of sexual or romantic attraction, but it’s either very rare, and/or so felt so weakly that a person wouldn’t feel the desire to ever act upon it … not by choice, but because the respective form of attraction is all but missing as the catalyst for taking action. Hope that helped a bit, y’all. :)

  • Thanks. Really helped me understand my sexuality and others.
    Much appreciated!!

  • thank you! this really helped me and i hope it helps others to.

  • This really helped me a lot because I’ve been having problems with my sexual orientation, so thank you

    Ayla Chrisley

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